I understand firsthand the challenges of supporting our daughters through rejection, friendship drama, and their journey to find their people.
Research indicates that parents often experience their children's emotions deeply, which can be especially true when daughters face friendship challenges. It's exhausting to help your daughter navigate school, friendships, and the complexities of social dynamics. Feeling a mix of anxiety, stress, worry, and heartache is natural when you see your daughter struggling to fit in or find her way.
Research also suggests that parents have a strong instinct to protect their children from harm, including emotional pain. When we witness our daughters grappling with friendship issues, we may feel a strong urge to step in and solve the problem, even though we know it's not always possible. This can lead to feelings of frustration and helplessness.
Hi, Brave friends!
In this blog post, I'll share five choices that can help you and your tween or teen daughter effectively work through problems.
Do you often find yourself or your child struggling to solve problems?
It's important to approach problem-solving from a bigger perspective, enabling us to explore different choices and move forward rather than getting stuck in the details.
Choice #1 - Fix the Problem:
When facing a problem, the first choice is to focus on finding a solution. It might require thinking creatively and coming up with unique approaches. Often, we tend to feel overwhelmed and frustrated for longer than necessary. Encouraging your daughter to believe in herself and her problem-solving abilities is crucial. Allowing her to solve the problem on her own is equally important.
Choice #2 - Change Your Attitude:
Sometimes, the problem lies not in the situation but in how we perceive it. By changing our attitude and looking at the problem from a different...
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